When circumstances change, you don’t have to face it alone. Here’s how to get help, protect your dog, and explore every option before saying goodbye.
By Mark Gill, CEO of Petasure
Pet ownership is one of life’s greatest joys – a bond built on loyalty, love and companionship. But it also carries serious responsibility. For some owners, unexpected changes in health, finances or personal circumstances can make that responsibility feel overwhelming.
It’s a heartbreaking thought – and one that many prefer not to face – but sometimes people find themselves asking, what do I do if I can’t care for my dog anymore?
The good news is that in many cases, giving up a pet can be avoided. With the right advice, support and breathing space, most families find a way to keep their dog where they belong – at home.
When life changes suddenly
Redundancy, illness, housing issues or relationship breakdowns can all affect an owner’s ability to provide care. But if the situation is temporary, help is often available.
Charities such as the RSPCA, Dogs Trust and Blue Cross offer a range of support – from subsidised vet care and pet food banks to short-term fostering. These organisations understand that needing help doesn’t mean failing your pet.
Behavioural problems: don’t give up hope
Dogs may show unwanted behaviours such as barking, destructiveness or aggression when something isn’t right. This can be stressful, especially in busy households, but behaviour rarely changes without reason.
The first step should always be a vet check, to rule out illness, pain or injury. If nothing physical is found, professional help is still available. The Dogs Trust Behaviour Support Line offers free guidance and can direct you to a qualified behaviourist.
Unexpected vet bills
Sudden medical costs are a common reason people feel forced to give up their pets. Before making that decision, it’s important to speak to your vet – many offer payment plans or temporary discounts, and some work with charities that may help.
The RSPCA and other animal welfare groups may be able to assist with support or vouchers, depending on your circumstances. To reduce the risk of being caught off-guard in future, we always recommend pet insurance. At Petasure, we’ve seen first-hand how it helps families manage the unexpected and continue caring for the pets they love.
When there truly is no other choice
If, after exhausting all options, you find you are no longer able to care for your dog, rehoming them responsibly is the kindest decision.
Start by contacting the original breeder or seller – many will take the dog back or assist with rehoming. If that’s not possible, speak to trusted friends or family who may be able to provide a suitable home.
If those avenues aren’t available, we recommend contacting a reputable rescue organisation.
The following are among those we trust:
- RSPCA: www.rspca.org.uk
- Battersea: www.battersea.org.uk
- Association of Dogs and Cats Homes (ADCH): www.adch.org.uk
- Blue Cross: www.bluecross.org.uk
- Cats Protection: www.cats.org.uk
Each will assess your dog’s needs and place them in a suitable environment with the support they require.
You’re not alone
No one should have to make this decision in isolation. If you’re struggling, speak to your vet, reach out to a charity, or contact our team here at Petasure. We can help you explore your options, connect you with trusted resources, and offer reassurance at a time when it’s most needed.
Because while these conversations are difficult, they are also an act of love – the kind that puts a dog’s wellbeing first.
To find out more, or to speak with the Petasure Support Team, visit
www.petasure.co.uk